Two Traits Scientifically Proven to Create a Lasting Relationship

Have you noticed a drop in the level of satisfaction in your relationship?  Are you on quest to find more happiness with the person you love?  Couples who stay together over the years and find lasting happiness together are couples who have discovered the beauty of kindness and generosity.

John Gottman, renowned couple’s researcher, has discovered after studying thousands of couples that there are two types.  Those couples who had learned how to turn toward each other in times of difficulty with kindness and generosity were the ‘masters’. Those couples who showed contempt or criticism toward each other in times of trial became the ‘disasters’.

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Kindness is a super fruit of the Holy Spirit and is an adhesive that is known to hold a couple together for a lifetime (Galatians 5:22). When you show kindness and generosity your every action will have the flavor of grace in it.  Kindness and generosity are two guiding forces that will help your partner feel validated and understood.